I’M Amazed By How Evil People Can Be

I’M Amazed By How Evil People Can Be

I’m amazed by how evil and unchristian like many people can be… in this world. It’s shocking to me to witness the amount of what my Pastor calls, “Christianity Immaturity” in the heart of the bible belt. I see hypocrisy, lack of brotherly affection and evil schemes being planned behind closed doors in southeast Tennessee… Lack of love, unkind behavior, arrogance and much pride seems to be an epidemic among many people in the south. Inhospitable people, I say. At least, I see this towards hispanics.

It has been almost three years and I’m still feeling like an outsider in here.  The things that I hear and don’t hear sometimes is literally unbelievable. I don’t think you would believe if I told you, actually. Perhaps, things are different in the city of Atlanta, GA. That’s my hope. Tennessee isn’t a welcoming state, that’s for sure… unfortunately.

In Romans 12:10 we read, “Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.”  In Hebrews 13:2, we are reminded to, “Not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” Ephesians 4:32 reads, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” “Greet one another with a holy kiss. All the churches of Christ greet you,” Romans 16:16… Sometimes I feel people want to hit me with a baseball bat and see me suffering around here. 

I’m strong and know how to deal with such rough circumstances. A former colleague of mine received similar treatments around here and eventually left the state of Tennessee. He seems to be happy in Florida where he belongs. He used to come to my office crying in disbelief about how he was treated around here. He wasn’t the only one, I must add.

Thankfully, there is hope against much adversity. In James 1:12, it is written, “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.”

Christlike behavior isn’t demeaning. Christlike behavior isn’t unkind. Christlike behavior isn’t self-centered. Christlike behavior isn’t ambitious to the point of isolating a Christian brother or sister for self gain. Christlike behavior is based on the figure of Jesus Christ and how he treated others above himself.

If you claim to be a Christian, treat people with respect and don’t be partial. It is a sin to stop speaking with people because of what others may think (or do) to you. We need to be people with principles and character. “But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.” The former advice found in James 2:9 is clear cut about how we should communicate with others.  

My hope? God. Always…

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12 Bible Based Principles To Live And Work By

12 Bible Based Principles To Live And Work By

The bible is a great book that teaches people a number of very important lessons about life. You don’t need to believe in Judaism or Christianity in order to learn from the teachings that are included in the holy book.  In this post, I will share with you several bible based principles I’ve learned from the bible  throughout the years that when applied often helps people to live a much better life.

Are you ready for this? I am. 🙂

“The moment that you make God the center of your life, the former struggles start to disappear. You will quickly realize that possessions and job nomenclature is de facto meaningless.”

God called us to be wise. The way to wisdom is fearing God not being the owner of our destiny based on what we want to believe outside of scripture.”

“Be different; Choose God and sanity before earthly wealth. Make your life meaningful.”

“A true Christian doesn’t spend his or her journey comparing themselves to others or worse — putting themselves ahead of others. We put others ahead of us.”

“Prayer is God’s secret to doing well in life. Don’t forget to pray. Pray daily. Believe, love God, and pray.”

“Not everything that feels good or right is in fact good for you in God’s eyes. We need to life a moral life that puts God first and we second.”

“God is a gift — pray continuously. The reward is worth the sacrifice. “f you dream and have faith… God will help you to achieve.”

“Don’t be jealous of others because God’s people complement them. Be patient because your time of glory will come.”

“Life is a miracle. This former fact, in itself, is worth celebrating the mercy and love of God.”

“God takes care of His people by putting extraordinary people in their path. He also humbles us to make us different for our own sake.”

“Listen carefully: Nobody is perfect in this life, not even you or me. Only God is perfect.

“Don’t forget this: God is paying attention. Are you giving yourself a chance to be helped by God by being reasonable with others?”

That’s it for now. Reading the bible is good for you and me. Read it regularly and critically.  You won’t regret.

Challenges Will Head Your Way: Don’t Be Afraid

Challenges Will Head Your Way: Don’t Be Afraid

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7.  Our goal in life is to follow God’s instruction and live in Him who grants us all the power, love and a mind to glorify Him and live the good life. Don’t be afraid! Rejoice, instead because the Lord is good.

Challenges will head your way in your adult life. Don’t be afraid. It just happens, you know? It happens to the best of us. It is normal and expected. It’s a part of live as many people would say.

In fact, it is statistically improbable that the alternative will prove to be right. We all face challenges in this world, in one way or another.

Perhaps, there are adults out there who don’t experience challenges in life for some reason. I just don’t know who they are…

This is what I’ve seen in my life.

If a person is wealthy, he can face challenges for being wealthy. Examples of stresses that a wealthy person face include losing money during a business downturn, the possibility of being kidnapped, or assassinated because of their positive financial position. Wealthy friends, don’t fear. God is with you, too. Just remember that.

If a person belongs to the middle class, she faces many challenges, as well. The poor can be jealous of those who aren’t poor which in itself can be challenging to anyone, especially for a middle class employee depending on her job to eat each month. This group of people face many additional challenges as an adult including the inability to pay lower taxes, affordable housing in some places, access to good dental services and health care at an affordable price, among many other ones. With God, there is no need to be afraid, ladies and gents.

If someone is poor, the struggle is for real and is constant. The poor struggles so much in this life. The poor is often stuck in their situation and are the ones who often suffer the most in their adult life. The challenges that they experience are so many! I would say that we have the duty to help them in any capacity we can as members of the body of Christ. Poor people are God’s favorite if they belong to the body of Christ, which many do. Brothers and sisters in the lower cast, God loves you, as well. Stay firm in the faith and don’t fear…

God is good… all the time. From east to west, north to south, black and white or in colors… the Lord is with us forever.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging” (Psalms 46 1:3).

Never forget that.

Why Are Children A Gift From God?

Why Are Children A Gift From God?

Because God said so. Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.
Children born to a young man are like arrows in a warrior’s hands. How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them! He will not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates.” (Psalm 127:3-5). 

Indeed, Children are a gift from God.

They are also a gift because of the following:

  1. They teach us love: Love is when we like someone else more than we like ourselves. Children often make us like them more than ourselves early on. I cannot imagine any mom leaving her kid astray and not helping her son or daughter in times of need, assuming that she is in good mental health. If Sophia needs my help, in Christ I say, I will do what I can to provide and protect her because I like her more than I like myself. I can say the same for my wife.
  2. They teach us self-sacrifice:  Children are labor intensive and need a lot of attention especially when they are young. They don’t have the ability to provide for themselves which inevitably leads us to put their needs ahead of ours. They are dependent on their daddy and mommy to eat and to be taken care of especially when they are sick or sad. As a parent, you will find yourself engaging in self-sacrifice, e.g, going to the hospital at 4:15am because your kid has a fever or spending your disposable income buying them toys and happy meals to make them happy and smile… which are clearly examples of self sacrifice, I must add. Parents (responsible ones) choose to provide for their kids first before thinking about themselves.
  3. They teach us discipline: Sophia eats at 7:00pm and goes to bed around 8:00pm, everyday. She wakes us up promptly at 6:55am so she can start her daily duties. Consequently, we are awake in the bathroom with her at 7:05am brushing our teeth and getting ready to eat breakfast by 7:15am. We then take her to school promptly by 7:40am or so every morning, Monday to Friday. You get the point! Children helps us to be more discipline, especially with time, which is in itself a big blessing for responsible adults.
  4. They teach us self-control: Small children makes us calmer. Let me say this: Sophia makes me very calm, especially during the weekends. I’m much calmer with Sophia than with my parents which historically have made me quite calm. I would say that my daughter Sophia helps me a lot in this area, quite a lot in fact. I have become much calmer because of children which literally makes children a blessing in our lives. Because kids sometimes lack self-control and can be impulsive, adults who are invested in the lives of their kids are able to help them out in order to avoid such situations and consequently be more self-controlled themselves. The former results in parents making less elementary mistakes relating to lack of emotion control.
  5. They teach us gentleness: Gentleness can be defined as the quality of being kind, tender, or mild-mannered. A kind person engages with a softness of action towards others, like speaking without screaming or legitimately helping others to cope with the many challenges that they experience in all arenas of life. Do you see why God tells us that children are a gift from him? Indeed, they are.  Unkindness and brutality are short lived and destructive in this world. We are to be kind and glorify God above everything. Children helps us with that.
  6. They teach us patience: I’m a very patient person by nature. However, Sophia made me even more patient than before. A child sometimes does stupid things which can make any well behaved parent/human being impatient. Kids slow you down and demand that you do things on their own time, they way. Many even scream quite loud in order to get what they want in their own time. A good parent don’t always fold to his children’s wishes, though. Patience is a requirement for raising children according to God’s laws (Ecclesiastes 7:9).  We learn a great deal of patience from kids, that’s fore sure.
  7. They help us when we are old: Not only that! They also help our parents to live a longer life. Sometimes, a grandchild is all that older people really have to look for in their lives — Seeing their grandchildren. Watching your parents happy and playing with your son and seeing your child smiling back in a blessing in itself which in turn become an indirect blessing to us. A kid in his or her teens can help their parents a lot inside (and outside) of the house which can be quite a blessing to any person needing to rest after a long day at work.

A man with children helps himself and his community including the church.  How much are kids worth? The answer is: I can’t calculate a fair number because children is a blessing from God. They are a heavily gift to us. They teach us direct and many times indirect lessons about love, self-sacrifice, self control, gentleness, patience…

Because… Grandchildren are the crown of old men, And the glory of sons is their fathers” (Proverbs 17:6). Blessed are the ones who have a child spirit because they shall inherit the kingdom of God, as taught to us in Matthew 18:2.   

Love and keep loving children friends. Never forget that.