These are things I’ve done (or philosophies that I have adopted) in order to develop my career as a college professor. There is much wisdom in them! I suspect that these activities will also be of great value for you as it helps us to be grounded in things that really matter. Are you ready for it?
Here we go. In order to develop yourself professional…
- Buy yourself a guitar and study music. You heard that right. Sell your computer and buy a guitar as Tom Petty once said. The act of jamming your six strings and singing alone but preferably in front of a group of listeners, friends, enemies, groupies… overtime can do miracles for you and will help you to reach your goal of being an extrovert. The act of playing the guitar and being in front of others is one of the first steps you need to do in order to becoming more comfortable when speaking with strangers. Why do you second guess yourself? You can be an extrovert overtime. Yes you can! Let me repeat: Yes you can! Do me a favor now. Go get yourself an acoustic guitar and schedule some guitar maybe voice lessons. The former can do miracles in your life, trust me.
Be a source of pleasure. No matter which career you are in or want to pursue, don’t be grumpy, melancholic, egoistic or egocentric, self-centered, or arrogant. Be the type of person you and your friends want to be around with. You don’t need to force your new image on others, either. Be a source of pleasure and celebrate creating harmony by making others to celebrate themselves. Eventually, others will invite you in their circles and will legitimately enjoy being around you for the right reasons not because of your position or authority. I see too many people today failing to re-create themselves into someone better because of a false belief that they need to stick to their century long traditions. Their stagnation is eminent; Loss of talent is predictable; lack of self-innovation and brand depreciation is likely.
Question your assumptions once in a while. Be careful when making lifetime assumptions because when you assume, you make an… you know how the saying goes. Things change, life evolves, and people learn lessons. Not always but you know what I mean. In the spirit of wanting to recreate your image and questioning some of your lifelong goals and objectives, you have to be open minded to the possibilities that might head your way. One of the ways to accomplish the former is by questioning what you may think is untouchable to you. If I was so defensive about ever changing my upbringing instilled ideologies from childhood, I would have never turned into a college professor. In the country club culture in which I was born and raised in, becoming a college professor was seen as the ultimate sign of failure only after lacking a formal college education. I knew then and certainly know now, however, that the truth is far from what I was once told. It took me “questioning my childhood assumptions” in order to be able to see life as it is.
- Don’t be delusional. Many today live their lives in a world of fantasy and make believe because of their inability to question their own circumstances, values and inherited biases. There is tremendous power in re-evaluating what you believe, feel, and care about in the context of what is real. This doesn’t mean that you should be mean, treat others with disrespect, turn yourself blue when common sense calls you to be yellow, or totally ignore your history for the sake of change and advancement. Common sense plays a variable in the process, you now? Be realistic with yourself.
Avoid using the word “I.” Professionals who constantly use the word “I” rarely make the greatest impact in the life of others especially students. If you hear someone constantly using the pronoun “I” in conversations, be aware. Chances are very high that “I” means excluding you. A caring and dedicated professional must learn how to use the word “you” or “we” 95% percent of the time because the overuse of the word “I” will only lead to contention and suspicion. As a responsible worker and leader, you need to create harmony and transparency… A star employee champions equilibrium in the life of his/her team and puts him/herself second to the needs of the team. A great way to accomplish such pursuits is by replacing the word “I” with the better alternative… “You” or “We.”
That’s it! These are five ways to develop yourself professionally. If you have a question or comments, don’t forget to leave a comment down in here. Peace.