Alpha males and females tend to compete a bit too much, which in the long run, result in eminent defeat. Driven by the motto, “Winning isn’t everything… Winning is the only thing,” these kinds of individuals miss the point that not everything is competition in life. Uncontrolled competition can do much damage to you and your family. It is stressful and counter productive, I argue.
When friends become foes, teammates become rivals, and people develop the philosophy of “Anything you can do, I can do better than you,” much stress and anxiety is experienced, along with an eminent counter-attack from the parties involved in the game exchange. Sometimes, the retaliation comes directly. Other times, the retaliation is subtle and indirect yet very damaging. Too much competition in the work force can cause more problems than solutions for any unit. At least this is what I think.
I know how to compete. Being a competitive golfer for many in my past, I know how to play this game quite well. I’ve seen the worse come because of unnecessary competition. I would rather see more collaboration than confrontation. It tend to produce better outcomes for everybody in the end.
Only an amateur doesn’t foresee the various side effects relating to executive warfare. Acting like an alpha commander wanting to win and dominate others, seeing the world as a zero-sum jungle, is unwise and destructive. Inevitably, these kinds of people eventually end up lying, cheating, and stepping on others good deeds in order to convince themselves that they are winning the battle.
What a big mistake… One’s wishes to rise above his or her peers, in any industry by the way, eventually find his/her paths broken by an inevitable catastrophe waiting to happen. People can read the evil intentions of others quite easily. Don’t be like them! Be a person of character and avoid such unwanted behaviors.
I’m not sure if alpha employees (males or females) realize the damage that they do to their organizations. Too much competition will only result in animosity which in its essence is destructive. I would rather be a leader who collaborates with others and who strives to find a way for everyone involved to win.
To me, this makes sense. Excessive competition leads to defeat. Be aware, ladies and gents.