Some may argue that owning the latest Ferrari model, a contemporary mansion in the Hills of California or money to spend at will indefinitely is what makes people happy in life. Others dare to say, “If I only had a bit more (often money or the ability to buy) I would be so much happier in this world,” and so on. No wonder why we have so many people, even billionaires, wanting to own even more in order to feel good or shall we say, “be happy.”
What makes people happy are often things they do for free or are very cheap. I say often because money is part of happiness but isn’t everything. Be very careful with the popular belief that “having a lot of money” is the ideal scenario to make someone “happy.” A number of scientists, including researchers from the National Institute of Health (NIH) seem to agree with the former.
Between zero and seventy-five thousand, money makes a difference in happiness. Between seventy-five thousand and seventy-five million, I don’t think it does. The toys and lifestyle one can afford may get fancier if a person has a three million dollar checking account but having all this money also causes people to be quite depressed. Guilt, the need to compete with other wealthier individuals, and the fear of losing wealth are some reasons why the true wealthy person gets depressed.
So, what else really makes us happy? This is what I think.
When we see our kids playing a sport or smiling, it makes us happy. If they win anything, it makes us even happier. When Sophia and I go for a walk together, I’m happy. When she does silly things and come to our bed in the morning to give me a morning hug, it makes me happy. The former costs me zero dollars.
Going to the beach often makes people happy because of the calmness one feels when they are near the ocean. Accomplished scientists have said the following, “Ocean waves generate negative ions, charged air particles that have been linked to mental energy and emotional well-being.” I don’t know the reasons why the beach makes me quite happy but it does. It costs us zero dollars to enjoy the salt and the smell of the Pensacola beach or any other beach for that matter. One may need to pay for a hotel room if she don’t live in a beach area but let’s not forget that it also costs forty bucks to eat in a good restaurant with your spouse and kids.
That’s why having some money is critical for happiness…
I’ve heard, however, countless stories of ultra wealthy people getting super stressed because of their own wealth. I’ve even received a facebook message from a multi-millionaire, drunk as he could be, begging for attention and a solution to his life’s misery. I told my friend the following, “All your money will never make you happy.” Spending more time with your kids will. Go play with them! You will feel better.”
Some may argue that owning the latest Ferrari model, a contemporary mansion in the Hills of California or money to spend at will indefinitely is what makes people happy in life. What makes people happy are often things we do for free or are very cheap. Between zero and seventy-five thousand, money makes a difference in happiness. Between seventy-five thousand and seventy-five million, I don’t think it does.
What makes you happy?