Be patient. Much good comes out of the virtue of patience… and much “not so good” comes out of the lack of thereof. Reflecting back in my own life, I can count numerous occasions where being patient paid off big. Some of these occasions include: Becoming a scratch golfer, graduating from high school, college, graduate school… getting tenure for the first time, finding the right wife, the list goes on and on. Patience was key in obtaining all of these milestones. Hope in God was also key.
I was able to surrender to God’s timing and control, through prayer, in order to achieve the former blessings. In my mind I thought, “If it is God’s will… I surrender my wishes to you.” Guess what? Through my hope in God and by surrendering my wishes to His, things worked out in His own time like graduating high school at age 20 and college at 28 but having a PhD by 34.
“I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in His word I hope” (Palm 130:5).
On the other hand, being impatient has contributed to many of my life’s pitfalls including losing a number of golf tournaments that I should have won, losing my university tenure, and almost giving up my career in higher education at one time. As I reflect on this topic, I admit that my inability to wait on God’s timing in some circunstances has caused much strife to my family, in a number of areas, over the years. How tragic!
I sometimes forget that God doesn’t operate under my wishes but His wishes. It’s worthwhile waiting and seeking God’s favor in His own time, always. Remember, “No eye has seen a God besides you, who acts for those who wait for Him” (Isaiah 64:4).
It’s weird. I’m patient with others much more than I’m patient with me. However, this is changing rapidly as I’m seeing that when we put our hopes in the promises of God, we do right according to God’s will, our faith increases and much strength is gained. No wonder…
“But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like the eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31).
I need to cultivate my patience as much as you. It is a fruit of the spirit that must be practiced by all of us all the time. Be patient. Much good comes out of the virtue of patience. Remember: Patience produces character.