There are exceptions to this rule but it’s rare. If you love your kid (or kids), you will be proud of their accomplishments and be emotional about them especially when others give them recognition. It’s impossible for my dad and mom to not be proud of this clip below or this report right here. I bet that them both have told others that I got a PhD from public Ivy, Penn State. They are human. It’s normal.
Why do I know that? Because we were all tiny once and dependent on them. They raised us to be big things in life. It’s the dream and joy of any parent. When kids accomplish great things in life, they can brag about it when they are old to others. They dream of having their kids accomplishing big things and live better than they did.
I like to call the former, “Children Exceptionalism.” The idea that your kids should always live better that you. I’m in total agreement with this philosophy.
The clip below is extraordinary. It is better than Bon Jovi’s, “Bed of Roses,” in many ways. I don’t say this very often about cover of well known artists, especially Bon Jovi. Nobody should be a mile better than Bon Jovi in music!
Witnessing accomplished artists literally displaying the feeling of, “I’m blown away by your talent,” will make any parent emotional. This kid’s parent and family members were obviously emotional. Question: How you would feel if you were this kid’s dad? Emotional, I bet.
So, I’m now emotional every time anyone says something great about Sophia. She is only 6 years old. I hear, “Sophia is so cute,” “Sophia is so photogenic,” “Sophia is adorable,” “Sophia is intelligent,” Sophia this, Sophia that. For obvious reasons, I’m emotional about it. I operate under the children exceptionalism rule. I dream big for Sophia so that she can dream bigger for herself.
It’s impossible for parents to not be proud of their kid’s accomplishments. We might as well embrace this fact and wish the best for our kids no matter the size of that accomplishment. You will be emotional when someone tells you that your kid has an amazing talent for sports, is cute, or both. It’s normal! Remember, you are human. Do you believe in “Children Exceptionalism?”